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[Tracey Leigh]

Tracey Leigh, Be carefull wishing it all... Its better to have nothing but live a life in love and in good health than having it all and being miserable in love and not enjoying good health..

Love and health is really what is needed in this world, other stuff are not that important, and if they are its just your frustrations talking..

Ok...you guys are clearly barking up the wrong tree here...I was not refering to material things .I was talking more about being accomadating .Clearly guys will be guys (hunter) and woman will be woman.You know if the sexes weren't different ,we won't be sooooo attracted to each other.

Any guys hating on here...get over it.You stuck with us and visa versa and YES ,you guys will NEVER satisfy us and you WILL NEVER know what it is we want.

[mukonjo]

well women donot need money,but they need love and care.

[Adrian]

well i guess all they thinc about s money they don't care about odher things like lve or stuff like that. thinc soo hope that i'm rong about it

[YoungRich]

to be completely honest i dont kno because every girl ive ever dated ive givin my all too but it seems like thats not enough

[Jaguar]

I think those of you that believe that girls want everything materialistic and only think about how big your wallet is, what kind of car you drive and everything you can buy them have been watching to many movies.

I've never met a girl who cares about how much money a guy has, or what kind of car they own or what you can buy them etc.
All the girls I know just want to be loved, looked after, trusted, believed in.
But guys seem incapable of doing that.

[Lisa]

Honesty

[Robert]

they want to dominate, but then say you are a weakling , so you stand up to them,then you become overbearing ,you take the lead in sex,you are a pervert, you wait for them to make the move ,they accuse you of seeing someone else, you bring them flowers they ask why, you dont bring them any ,you are not romantic, they say you never help in the home,then criticise your efforts to make dinner or iron the bed sheets , they want you to say you love them all the time , then when you do says its getting ion their nerves, they want you to cuddle them,but they never cuddle you. When you first meet a new girl,its usually when a group of guys meet a group of girls and you slowly pair off, then they convince you to stop seeing your friends so you can spend more time together , then they change the way you dress, your hairstyle ,what you drink, your eating habits and the places you go , then one day you get a text saying your not anything like the guy they first met, bloody right, they changed you and dont like the job they did so went out to find someone else to change
do i understand women, NO, and they dont understand themselves.

[Good woman]

I can't tell you what other women want but can tell you what I want....I want a man that is my partner, friend, lover and confidant. I want to be loved and appreciated and supported in all areas of my life. I want someone I can cry with, laugh with and just exist with....is that too much too ask for?

I am with you on that one Geraldine, all of the above plus someone who can be loyal and a true partner, not someone you have to take care of like thier Mother, someone who see's you for who you are not a pair of breasts, and loves and enjoys spending time with you and does not take you for granted.

[Robert]

sounds great,but sadly when you get what you want , most females want something different , i have been married to the same lady for 40 yrs and i love her to bits, i do all the cooking , all the repairs and diy
we are so close on how we think and act its scary, but ask me do i know what women want? not a hope in hell do i have the answer, because you keep changing your mind , not once,but all the time,and i have lots of friends who are married,couples who have exactly the same problem, women change with the weather

[Lovee]

Hehehe, may I suggest that you check out the movie "What Women Want" with Mel Gibson? I personally really enjoyed that and it has to be one of my personal favourites...

Personally I believe that women want the same thing as men... if it is supposed to be for a quick fling: A nice body, great fitness, comfort, terrific in bed and preferably with a rather limited memory span... They do not want you chasing them when the fling is over.

Others... look for a healthy bank account, a swish car and several credit cards to satisfy the senses... all of them... Hehehe, if a lady approaches you and asks the following four consecutive questions... ; How much do you earn, what car do you drive, are you single, are you gay?... be warned... These kind of women make ideal mistresses... but... if you are thinking of love and a long term relationship... it is best to remain monogamous...

My guess is that women look for a compagnion. Someone to support and guide them through life. Someone to complete them as a person. The quick fling elements just become the icing on the cake and there... the memory should be pretty much impeccable... What women want is the ideal man... So...

What is ideal?

The ideal man should never forget a birthday, always treat a woman as an equal, remember to take off his socks when going to bed, side with his mum in case of an argument, listen to her (as if he means it), refrain from any form of physical violence... and...

He should realize... that no matter what annoying habits she has, she is dealing with an enormous pile of imperfections every day...