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[John]

In my opinion, women really don't know what they actually want!!! They might think that they do, but it is so overrated!!! Some might think they want love, some might think they want sex, some might think they want money, but in reality, in most cases, you can't always get what you want. Sometimes you just have to take whatever you can get. Women are human just like men, but one day a woman will want love, then the next day she will change her mind and then say that she wants sex now. Men is always going to want the same things everyday. Let's face it, us, women can't make up our mind half the damn time, so in that case, we don't know what the hell we want. That is why you hear men calling women complicated. That is just in my opinion, hope not to offend anyone. Sorry if I did.

Well, I'm a man and I'm complicated so...

[Brittany*Gayle]

yea well men are complicated as well but usually men knows what's up tho!!!!

[John]

yea well men are complicated as well but usually men knows what's up tho!!!!

So true, I know what I want at large but not always how to get there.

[Eric]

it is funny that woman will pick the guys that look good but they become assholes to the woman and really the only good guys out there is the ones who are not so good looking. because we are nice and do not care for looks because that is not all that matters it is the person inside not the looks but woman will go for the hot ones anyway. and in my life i seen my friends be dicks to there girlfriends and they will take it and not leave them for that.

[Gully Creeper]

Sex? No problem there. get at me.

[Brooke]

Well, as for me a want honesty and trust the most. Those 2 qualities make up for a lot.

[dinah]

Women want a number of things, they want to be loved but not smothered. They want a man with money, but to be financially independant. To be taken care of and take care of you. They don't want to be argued with but want you to stand up for what you believe. They want you to clean up after yourselves, but to their standards. They want to be equal in a totally opposite way. They want to be treated like they are sexy but they don't want you to think of sex all the time and you should know when. Complicated of couse we are, that's why we are women.
Sorry there is no easy answer but this one is probably the closest one to the truth.

[Gully Creeper]

Hey tracy, What do you want baby? talk to mi.

[Nordika]

Not all women are the same. Sorry.

Some want to be treated like princesses and need contant reassurance they are all that
Some want to be treated as equals and have your support to pick up where they leave off
Some just want a best friend that they can share activities with and do deep conversations with
Others want absolute devotion and unwaivering support and trust.

We're all different.

What I want is definitely not the same as every woman and if you read the Cosmopolitan articles and all the 'what she thinks/needs' articles on line, you'd probably be way off in left field wondering what the hell you did wrong when you were following those 'expert' guidelines.

For example: I don't want endless deep meaningful conversations where I pour my heart out or discuss our feelings. There are times when it's necessary, but mostly not. If it's good I don't need to beat it and if it's bad lets just deal and move on already. I don't want my partner to sleep on the couch if were fighting. It better be resolved before anyone gets sleep. Sex is not leverage. It's not a negative thing either. Nor is a dirty word. I do want a man who is my equal in the day to day things, but after hours, he better be the Man. It's nice if he feels comfortable enough to cry on my shoulder, but I don't want him doing that a lot and so forth.

Basically what one woman wants is different from another so I doubt you'll find the answer you were hoping for, but hey, you aren't alone. Women deal with the same thing.

[rakeshanand]

[size=150][b]what do u eant i know every thing :lol: [/b][quote][quote][size=200][/size][/quote][/quote][/size]

[quote="Tracey Leigh"]I'm sorry call it SELFISH ...

But I want it ALL....EVERYTHING...

and yes I'm prepared to give !

But I'm sick of always being accomadating and not getting back what I deserve...

I'm a strong woman and I know EXACTLY what I WANT and I want it ALL. :)[/quote]