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[Dominic]

as being a shy man when i see a girl i like i have no clue what to say. my problem is taking the risk of being denied. what are some tips on picking up women. Also i no rejection is part of life.

[Bookgirl1990]

ok if u know rejection is part of life, then embrace it, and learn from it. and if u are shy, dont worry about it, just grab the bull by the horns, and go for it.
now i cannot speack or every girl in the world, but i do know what works on me, if the guy is confident and knows what he wants and goes for it, no matter the odds, then i will give him a chance.
i hope this answers your question, if not drop me a line on my profile and i will try and help, but that is up to you.

^_^

[EXPLORADOR]

First relaxe , I know that we past for that situation , my best opinion be yourself. and don´t think that the girls denied you, because it ´s in your mind.

All girls knows that we lies them, all depend of you. and good luck with your date..

[Romann]

there are some great ways to at least approach someone that you see that you are nervous about approaching. Just remember these will only get your foot in the door, you still have to make them comfortable enough to sit on the couch.

1. Approach her and ask for her opinion on something.. Your friend (and he doesn't have to be there, just point to someone) has gotten an invitation to go onto Morry Povich and you are trying to talk him out of it. He has a secret admirer, and you are worried that if he goes it is going to turn out to be a guy or something.

2. If you are going to a club or a bar, before you leave for the night, do this. Take a descent size piece of paper and write on it. John (or what ever name you want to use) you don't know what you are missing. With a black magic marker in big letters. Then when you see a table of women that you want to talk to you go up to the table and take the piece of paper out of your back pocket and unfold it. While you are doing this you tell them that they look like a fun table and you want to know if they will help you out with something. Your friend was supposed to come down to visit but decided not to because he met some girl on line and you want to show him how much he missed out by not coming. Take out your camera (always carry your camera) and take several pictures with different people at the table holding up the sign with you. It usually gets a good laugh and opened up the table for you to talk to who ever you want to talk to!

I am pretty nervous about approaching women that I want to talk to myself so I understand how you feel.

[Leidy]

JUST GO UP TO HER N TRY 2 TALK 2 HER IF SHE DOSENT LIKE U 4GET ABOUT HER N MOVE ON 2 THE NEXT GIRL U WILL FIND A GIRL THAT LIKES U JUST KEEP TRYING TILL U FIND THE RIGHT GIRL 4 U. U WILL FIND HER SOMEDAY

[Dominic]

thanks for all of your tips.

[White Trash]

"Fortune favours the bold"

- Virgil (70-19 BC)

[portglasgowmale]

Just go straight up to her and say you realise that someone who looks the way she does will probably be attached but you thought youd give it a try anyway.

Dont beat about the bush, lifes too short and theres way too many women out there who guys look at and just presume that they are attached, look how many famous women are single, dont be intimidated go for it.

worst case you will get a straight no or ignored.

[Aziz]

alright man. I had the same situation b4.
Dont worry to approach a grl u like. She wouldnt kick or punch u. I believe girls do like to be noticed and to be talked with. If shes alone, just do it, go ask her what time is it now,if she response then tell her what do u do in life and relate that to why time is important to u. Then introduce ur name. Then b4 u leave ask 3or her number.