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[Positive Vibes]

i've been on this FreeHookup thing for almost a week now and haven't gotten one response from any girls so far. is there anything special i should put there so it gets noticed more ofter or what. help would be appreciated

[MiSgUiDeD AnGeL]

Try putting a picture of your face on your profile. Like one of you doing sports or with your friends. Girls tend to go for guys who look lively. Smiling in there pictures or doing some type of sports. Hope that helps.

[Char]

Yep~ a smile helps

And if reading is something you like to do ~ great, but maybe not for the photo something that has you looking from the camera will show your interest in others, not just something you are doing.

By the way~ what age group are you in? Perhaps there are not so many young women in that bracket...?

I like your Name and that shade of green is definitly your colour Vibrant!

[Laura]

A better photo of you would most definately help. In that photo you look introverted and shy. That would be great for a girl that is the same. If it depicts you then keep the photo and dont get discouraged. There will be someone that is interested. If you are not shy and studious you need to change the photo.

I agree, seeing your face would help and that color green is not for you.

Also be sure to stay in your age range.

[Dave]

Everyone is giving you good advice. Also make sure you say something about yourself. Never leave your story blank. I post as many pics as I can and update them often. Make sure they have clear resolution. Have some close ups and some full body views so there are no surprises. Maybe an action shot doing a sport or interest you have. Also consider the background of your shots. This gives the viewer a glimpse into your lifestyle and personality.

Good luck...

[Louise]

I agree with Dave when I look for a man on here I look for a full profile with all his guts out there. That is what give me the inclination that he is being honest, no info you are on my deleted list. But........ on the other hand there are smooth talkers that do the same but I can tell and I delete them all out too. The smoothies usually I find talk about nothing just a pile of sexy romantic words. While they are nice but I prefer the real you so that I can tell if you are right for me and move forward. Granted there are a few hidden smoothies that do talk about there real selves and they blind side you when you least expect it. I have had that happen to me in a real bad way but the point is be real and fill out your profile and the right one will come by.

Oh P.s I prefer the men to hunt me down it makes for a better relationship in the future. Men are suppose to be the hunters and Women are suppose to be choosers. Not the other way around it make a woman look desperate and insecure. Last I checked men hate that except players.

[Karmallama]

It might be the people you're contacting too. If you make sure they have the 'recently online' thing on their profile, then at least you know they're using the site.

I'd have to agree about showing your face. Playing the mysterious card is all well and good, but it doesn't really come across too well on here. People like to see what they're buying into (says the guy with a photo of him looking at his feet).

I think the biggest difference you can make is to make a few posts on here too. I'd tried sending a few flirts and things and had no luck. Not even a 'wink' back. But if you can get a bit of conversation going or contribute on the messageboards, it seems like people can see more of you. I've had a little interest with remarks about my posts on here... so it shows that people DO read this and it does make a difference.