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Responding to messages

Postby MONEYLUVZNO1 110 days, 18 hours ago

Why dont some women respond to messages? If they dont want to converse with me I would rather they told me so that I wont be waiting for a so called potential response that isnt coming. That way I could talk to someone else right away.

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Maria 109 days, 7 hours ago

Jeez ... I'm not trying to sarcastic here ... but perhaps you should try putting a different picture in your profile. Another thought ... Silence is also an answer.

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Anam 3 days, 16 hours ago

In simple language: she is not replying = she is not interested.

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Michael 3 days, 15 hours ago

MONEYLUVZNO1 wrote:Why dont some women respond to messages? If they dont want to converse with me I would rather they told me so that I wont be waiting for a so called potential response that isn't coming. That way I could talk to someone else right away.

i thoroughly agree, its a bit negative, when you search all the profiles, look at ladies, that you think are nice, send a flirt to break the ice, only to get no response back, makes you think,;;whats wrong with me???'' am i flying to high, only takes a minute or two to say, ;;thanks, but no thanks''. how do you REALLY, get to know someone, without at least a chat on the phone, or at least a chat on e-mail, not being pretentious here., OK I'm not Leonardo DE, but I'm not Shrek, either but, a lot of your ladies are really missing out big time, o.k. looks are important, but not the be all,end all, a lot of us guys on here are looking for someone nice, OK some are just users, give us blokes that are, ''looking for the love of there life '', a chance, maybe were better of going to the club/pub instead of sitting in front of p,c.s, ,as I'm a little shy, nervous at first, thought this would be a good way to break the ice, seems that i was wrong,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,MICHAEL

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Colin 3 days, 15 hours ago

think of it as a volume business... get your word out to as many people as possible and see how much interest you get in return

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby homeport51 3 days, 14 hours ago

I read the responses and the ones from the ladies were just cold.
I think if you message someone, then even if there is no interest it only takes a second to send a "thanks but no thanks" response. Everyone deserves to be acknowleged.
There is nothing wrong with your profile picture or your profile. It is who you are. You may not appeal to everyone, but there is someone out there that your profile will speak volumes to. All that being said, we all have feelings and we all have the ability to be kind to one another. It's hard enough being out there.

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby mido 3 days, 12 hours ago

Anam wrote:In simple language: she is not replying = she is not interested.


why don't her tell him that and answer him then close

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby mido 3 days, 12 hours ago

Anam wrote:In simple language: she is not replying = she is not interested.


why don't her tell him that and answer him then close

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby ~*K0in0philia*~ 3 days, 6 hours ago

Personally not responding is not interested, I don't answer to alot, I don't want to give false hope. Even if it were to say "not interested" then they want to know why and the feelings may be hurt. Along with I wont respond to ...no pictures, and others I won't respond to because of the funky picture scenic views, and muppets.. lol seriously one guy has some weird muppet monkey looking head waving it was funny but come on...

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Jocelynne 3 days, 5 hours ago

This is what I tell the "Flirts"...thx for the flirt....check out the forums....
I am not a fan of hurting peoples feelings....I try to let them down nicely...never hurts to have too much friends..
Okay now I say this and think of the 2 times I told 2 guys "keep it in your pants"..but that was what the situation entailed....but as the other girls have said....no news, she's not on the same level, move on there are plently of sharks in the sea....oops I mean fish (or do I? :lol::twisted:)

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