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[Michael]

Silence also means that she knows she can do better than you.

Not true in most cases we really have no idea who that person is.

They do know who it is, they can look at persons profile.

[Misty]

Misty wrote:
Silence also means that she knows she can do better than you.

Not true in most cases we really have no idea who that person is.

They do know who it is, they can look at persons profile.

They can see a picture or up to six pictures and up to a paragraph. Maybe I'm a little more skeptical than most but I would prefer to talk to somone for a bit and get a feel for them myself. I don't necessarly take wink wink as an open invitation to talk. Maybe I should?

[Colin]

Misty wrote:
Silence also means that she knows she can do better than you.

Not true in most cases we really have no idea who that person is.

They do know who it is, they can look at persons profile.

They can see a picture or up to six pictures and up to a paragraph. Maybe I'm a little more skeptical than most but I would prefer to talk to somone for a bit and get a feel for them myself. I don't necessarly take wink wink as an open invitation to talk. Maybe I should?

*wink wink* means I'm nervous about chatting... or it means I don't want to waste my time typing if it's not going to be replied to. Or it could mean I'm contacting every female I see and typing a message for each would take too long.

[Misty]

Oooh. I figured people wink from all around the world. I just thought it was a harmless compliment. Does everyone that winks really want to talk to those they winked?

[Colin]

Oooh. I figured people wink from all around the world. I just thought it was a harmless compliment. Does everyone that winks really want to talk to those they winked?

I think so

[homeport51]

Honestly, answering back usually entails a lot of annoying messages back. I've tried the nice approach and told them I'm not interested and they're not what I'm looking for but then I get tons of messages back about why? Or even messages where they're trying to insult. And yes homeport, there are a lot of ways to let someone know you're not interested but the majority seem not to take the nice approach very well at all.

I don't think replying back with a polite "thanks but no thanks" obligates you to any further conversation. Not everyone who contacts you will be rude. However for those who don't take no for an answer, then I would say don't bother to reply again and block that person from further contact if necessary. I understand what you are saying... I truly do... but I still think that kindness and courtesy are sadly missing from these sites...