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Re: Responding to messages

Postby alan 4 days, 7 hours ago

Anam wrote:In simple language: she is not replying = she is not interested.

hi there

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Anam 3 days, 21 hours ago

Cold? the ladies arent being cold. Think of it this way..if you give your number to someone and they never bother calling, does that not say anything to you? Or would you be happier if they called and said "i dont think i am interested in you". it doesnt make a difference, like someone said earlier that silence is also an answer.

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby alan 3 days, 16 hours ago

wat do u like talk?

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Michael 3 days, 16 hours ago

Silence also means that she knows she can do better than you.

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby homeport51 3 days, 15 hours ago

Anam wrote:Cold? the ladies arent being cold. Think of it this way..if you give your number to someone and they never bother calling, does that not say anything to you? Or would you be happier if they called and said "i dont think i am interested in you". it doesnt make a difference, like someone said earlier that silence is also an answer.

The responses were cold! If someone wanted to give me thier number and I wasn't interested, I would politely refuse to take the number. There are a million ways to turn someone down and not have to hurt their feelings in the process.

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby alan 3 days, 15 hours ago

i dont know how i use soosk to heat for me so wat can i do tel me?

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Morning 3 days, 14 hours ago

Honestly, answering back usually entails a lot of annoying messages back. I've tried the nice approach and told them I'm not interested and they're not what I'm looking for but then I get tons of messages back about why? Or even messages where they're trying to insult. And yes homeport, there are a lot of ways to let someone know you're not interested but the majority seem not to take the nice approach very well at all.

I got a question, why do the people that do not speak my language try to communicate with me? I'm sorry, I don't speak Turkish, Portuguese, Italian, or French. Them doing that I think it just a way to gather attention or be just annoying.

Usually not replying just leaves it and they don't bother anymore.

Another thing, I've actually ran into a few flirts that I couldn't reply back to. Maybe it's because I don't have a premium account. But I've had flirts from outside of my asian region and FreeHookup will not let me reply back to them.

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Michael 3 days, 13 hours ago

FreeHookup is an anti-zoneite establishment bent on segregation. ;)

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Misty 3 days, 12 hours ago

Silence also means that she knows she can do better than you.


Not true in most cases we really have no idea who that person is. These messages consist of wink/wink? If someone winks at you on the street do you stop and talk to them? Ooohhh they winked at me, must mean they want to talk? No.... If you want a response ask a question. Also, don't spam some email address or phone number (to many scammers to be sending people that info right off).

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Re: Responding to messages

Postby Dylan 3 days, 7 hours ago

only reason lack of answer bothers me is b/c i think maybe they didn't get a chance to check their mail and out of courtesy i wait about a week before looking again. a big waste of time.

i guess that's better than this one girl who i sent a flirt to. a week later her profile completely dissapeared from FreeHookup.

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