Laura wrote:I can only say from watching this with someone I know... what the $%^#* ! Its absurd The things in common, the level of communication all wrong.
I can only speculate that she is a controller and wants to shape this boy into exactly what she wants rather than trying to find a real suiter and work at it?
On the flip side... Older man younger woman? Whats that all about?
I'm guessing the same thing, I may be wrong.
James wrote::D Hmmmmmmm I know i dated a older woman back in 2003 until 2004 she was 60 and i was like 44 but i did have a great time with her but of course her husband found out and i left ...I am a lover not a fighter
Laura wrote:No, I wasn't talking about you at all. I had no idea what your situation was. I just find it hard to immagine that two people with a 15 to 20 year age span have enough in common for a real serious relationship. In the case I was speaking about it is a girl 18 years his senior.
She has children nearly his age. I'm guessing when they go out he gets carded. I just cant see how this is going to turn into something good for both of them. He watches rock videos and plays video games with her children.It makes me think she adopted another son and not she found a partner.
Again on the flip side, guys being so senior to the girl they date? What is that all about?
If you found someone much younger and it works for both of you, great! It was not an attack by any stretch, it is my observations of a few situations I have seen.
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