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Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby Nathaniel 14 days, 14 hours ago

Judge me...no seriously, do it, but be honest and fair. Judge my profile please, thanks.
(click on my pic and read my profile) Ready? Set? Judge.
All constructive and well-thought out opinions are welcome. If any girl wants my opinion about her profile, just mention "judge my profile" in your reply. Come on people, we can all help each other improve our odds in getting responses (guys or girls). First of all, thank you to everyone, wow! :DI am so impressed. I didn't expect such a good response and from people in different countries. I love it! Thank you. It's all very helpful information and it will take time for me to process all of this and really put some thought into my profile, but that's half the fun.
I will tell you about myself and you tell me how much I should lie or withhold. Here's my proposed profile:

STORY
I'm a romantic, artistic and multi-talented, former, amateur musician. I was a music major in college (majored in piano) didn't finish :(I am a poet with a few published poems. I built my computer from scratch and I'm a bit tech savvy but I'm no IT. I don't like watching sports but I love playing them. I'm no car mechanic, but I can do a few simple repairs if I have to. I love playing different games and sports. I'm a people person, but not a people pleaser. I taught children's church for 10 years and so many of my talents were developed in that area for a while and it was fun but I'm burnt out now (puppets, drama, teaching, games, etc). I started writing children's books as a kid because I didn't like the ones I read and so now I enjoy reading higher quality books that spur the imagination ("The Divine Comedy" by Dante Alighieri) I'm a hard worker and a little bit of a perfectionist, but I know when to quit. I like to try new things. I learned a few dance moves from dance classes that I took (samba and ballroom).

PERFECT MATCH
She's a committed Christian (church is not a holiday) :)She has a sense of humor, she enjoys trying new things (games, playing sports maybe? dancing, picnic in the park, walk the trails) and is willing to try attending theatre (just once?), tie a cherry, but I don't think it matters - http: // www. wikihow. com /Tie- a- Knot- in- a- Cherry- Stem- With- Your- Tongue (remove the spaces added between characters). I want my heart to beat fast when she enters the room, but slowly when she runs her fingers through my hair. She thinks that the last line was romantic and not creepy and that when I run my fingers through her hair she doesn't get mad. No one wants a perfect doll, if you can't get close to her. A woman with that peaceful vibe that makes me relax definitely has something going for her. Baggage belongs in closets, not relationships - each relationship has its own special baggage :roll:

PERFECT DATE
We walk with the sand between our toes at night under a full moon while holding hands. The sound of the tide gently and repeatedly washes our feet as we walk, removing all fear and doubt. It's a little cold, so we walk away from the water to a small campfire where we roast marsh mellows nestled together, kissing slowly. Suddenly 2 fat kids jump out of the nearby bushes and steal our marsh mellows, but we beat both of them up pretty bad until they cry for their parents and we run away, jump in the car and drive off with our half toasted marsh mellows :lol:Well, perhaps a perfect date is too much to ask for, but if you enjoy someone's company then its already perfect.
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Re: Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby shane 14 days, 10 hours ago

Far to niceyou will never get a girl by being nice :lol::lol::lol:

:twisted::twisted:

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Re: Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby Elma 13 days, 22 hours ago

Nathaniel wrote:Judge me...no seriously, do it, but be honest and fair. *sigh* I will probably regret asking this question, but I would like a girls opinion to make a judgement call on what kind of girl they think I might attract or if they are interested in me based on my pics and FreeHookup profile. Why or why not?
(click on my pic and read my profile)
Ready? Set? Judge.
Also, what does a guy have to do to get a response from a girl in FreeHookup? Does anyone actually join dating sites to meet anyone or is it all just a running gag that dating sites profit from?
Gentlemen, don't bother making "gay comments." It's not original or mature, but constructive, well-thought out opinions are always welcome. If any girl wants my opinion about her profile, just mention "judge my profile" in your reply. Come on people, we can all help each other improve our odds in getting responses (guys or girls). I don't think super hot girls on this site ever check their profile. This site is really just a game for them or an ego buster for when they feel down. Let's be honest. Most people don't look like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, but a woman who smiles in pics can win me every time (show some teeth so its a real smile, no one has a perfect smile, so relax).

I like what you have there but it doesn´t say much about you tho.
I would gladly meet you but i live too far away :D

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Re: Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby Elma 13 days, 22 hours ago

Shane wrote:Far to niceyou will never get a girl by being nice :lol::lol::lol:

:twisted::twisted:


Don´t say that Shane
There are girls/women like me out here that really like nice guys like him ....someone maybe feeling jealous :lol::lol:

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Re: Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby Pretty Boy Syrome 12 days, 23 hours ago

Im not {GAY} no {HOMO} but you got a regular typical profile I should add my {Face....Book I rarley check it but seein that u posted your {Hmmm} kinda smart { UR COOL DUDE} stay awesome

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Re: Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby Monika 11 days, 23 hours ago

Honestly, right?

You are very good looking.

You need to seriously think about how important sports activities are to you...

Reason I say that is you are eliminating chicks who don't love, or even care for sports, as much as you do.

Personally, I would not respond to u (age, area, doesn't matter; for conversational purposes), because your profile makes you seem kinda one-sided!

You seem way too interested in sports! And the perfect date (from ur profile) seems to be athletic, only! Hot, sweatty, not good for impressing a guy!

What about a "ROMANTIC" first date?

picnic on the beach, candlelit dinner, musical-concert, sightseeing, dancing!!

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Re: Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby Monika 11 days, 23 hours ago

Maybe what's "fun" to you isn't romantic.

Also, you will limit ur responses to only sports-types. What if there is a beautiful, hot, smart, creative chick, who doesn't like sports as much, but she loves designing, painting, photography, wrting, etc...

and what if she thinks ur photo is perfect!, she thinks u are the bomb!...but she won't call u, cause u seem like her opposite?

Well, just something to ponder...hope you catch a good one!! :D

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Re: Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby Palionu 9 days, 17 hours ago

I agree with Monika. You did place a lot of emphasis on sports but decent women want more than that. I can see from your photos that you're about having a great time and maintaining friendships, why not place emphasis on who you are as person a little more? I can see you're making a step in the right direction, just don't be afraid to leap.

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Re: Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby Leah 7 days, 17 hours ago

I agree with Monica and Palionu... your date card makes me want to join my local sports team and get excersise as an outlet of whatever frustrations I had with men that week. Yeah i can see where having fun in an activity is something that would be great to do in a relationship - but leave that one to when you are actually dating?

I enjoy being active as much as the next, but for getting to know someone the first time ever... being sweaty is NOT something i would volunteer for. Especailly if we were going out in public AFTER. :oops:I woulld seriously like a guy who was willing to go on the first few outtings/dates that were more romantic/comfortable at first. It would make me all the more willing to go on a planned activity that you enjoy later. Maybe dinner first, then a slow walk in a park? Or go be silly and do a round at a mini-put...

Rule of Thumb: Could the activity be done comfortably in ONE outfit that includes either a skirt or a pair of jeans?

Good luck... :)

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Re: Judge me...no seriously, do it.

Postby Josh Ursu 7 days, 16 hours ago

true ture...with all this "MY KIND OF..." talk....i beleive that a relationship with a woman that has the same train of thought as you would be great and ideal, its just i like to find a girl that is different from my own opinions and key beleifs, it keeps things more interesting and you can have fun debating :)so my advice would be to just try thing. if you adore and praise the Redwings...and she loves the Pengs, why should that matter, its all fun and games in dating, leave some room to poke fun, or else itll get stale quickly:) .... regretably

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