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[dobby]

Hey I've noticed when ever I'm with a girl and the topic of sex comes up I'm always honest and say straight up I'm a virgin, and then I always feel awkward immediately after and things end up becoming weird. This is personal choice and there's nothing wrong with me. I just want to find someone I can be completely comfortable with and every time I'm in a position to get with someone I'm never interested because we are too different. Is being a virgin a huge turn off, should I lie?

[† Ivan †]

I don't think that's something bad, but the opposite.

Being a virgin is something special, because once you lost it you'll never had it again, it means a lot of good things.

You respect your body
You respect yourself
You prefer to make love instead of having sex
You have a strong will

Keep being as you are 'till you feel you have found the one.

[jonnibeau]

First of all I want to congratulate you on sticking to your morals even with all the peer pressure and pressure from society to be sexually active. I don't think we (as a society) encourage our young people enough when it comes to abstaining from sex. We've commercialized sex so much and made young people think that it's just another right of passage that they tend to jump right into it without knowing the possible consequences of their actions. But a far as your question goes, I'd say that if a girl can't respect your decision to remain abstinent then she's not worth your time anyway, so you shouldn't feel bad about kicking her butt straight to the curb! The right one will come along someday who deserves all you have to give, be patient!

[Mathew]

I would really like to encourage you Dobby to continue holding off for the right girl. I too am a virgin and proud of it and I also feel some of the things you have spoke about, such as feeling weird after telling people but it is something awesome to put out there in the open. One day we will both find someone who treasures our commitment, so keep hanging in there buddy.

Your fellow virgin, Matty

[Stormy]

good for all of you.

[Alisabeth]

no virginity is not a bad thing
if she has a problem with it thats her problem

[Jessica Brown]

It's alright babes, I'm waiting for the right person & time.

[Upisa Wana]

Virginity is not a bad thing. Infact you should be proud you are still a virgin. Keep it as selfishly as you can until you find that right one.

[Meg]

I agree with all of you. Saving yourself for the right person is really a wonderful thing, and any guy who readily admits to being a virgin shows that he is very strong, both for sticking to his morals and for having the balls to talk about it.
So, to answer your question, no it's not a bad thing to be a virgin, nor is it in any way unattractive.

[fran6leroi]

well well well well !!! everyone agree that being virgin is a good thing, what's next then ? I mean what is the next thing to say ? As myself is involved, the next is a constellation of questions : being aware of that ( i mean knowing that being virgin is a good thing), why do many of us chose to loose their virginity regardless to it ? Why does a person feel weird confessing is virginity ? Why is it so difficult to live in this world being a virgin ? These are few questions amoung an amount and I will be very glad if somone might give the answers. Sorry for my english !! I'm not a native english speaker.