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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Shaun 152 days, 15 hours ago

Hi,

I think the real question is 'would you date a virgin?' ...don't lie lol shirley it's too easy to say 'no', just like you can say 'I wouldn't care if he was ugly/poor/drove a womens car' etc lol

I'm a virgin, but I've dated, I am a flirt, I do get on with girls. Personal choice remember. It's just experience has made me a cynic and tought me that the above is often true! When I hear "it's really honerable", what I'm really hearing is "it's really honerable BUT I'd prefer to date a guy with experience, sorry"

We're all young, plenty of fish in the sea, etc lol I know not all girls are vanity obsessed bitches :PExperience has also taught me there are lots of girls out there who will like you for 'who' and not 'what' you are :)

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby AJ 152 days, 6 hours ago

@ the age of 30+ it sure is !!! :D

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Benzina 150 days, 3 hours ago

Alisabeth wrote:no virginity is not a bad thing
if she has a problem with it thats her problem



Hi! I've just lookes at your profile and,honnestly,i love your frankness! i,too,don't smoke,don't even drink and i love too much arts and litterature. Sincerely,you interests me a lot! Can we know each other better?

P.S: it's a serious proposition.

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Benzina 150 days, 2 hours ago

Meg wrote:I agree with all of you. Saving yourself for the right person is really a wonderful thing, and any guy who readily admits to being a virgin shows that he is very strong, both for sticking to his morals and for having the balls to talk about it.
So, to answer your question, no it's not a bad thing to be a virgin, nor is it in any way unattractive. :D



Hi Meg! I looked at your answer and also at your profile and,honnestly you are right and you are also so nice! Is it possible to know each other better?

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby roc1000 24 days, 15 hours ago

c est a toi qu il appartient de savoir
bises

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby kitkat 22 days, 3 hours ago

Meg wrote:I agree with all of you. Saving yourself for the right person is really a wonderful thing, and any guy who readily admits to being a virgin shows that he is very strong, both for sticking to his morals and for having the balls to talk about it.
So, to answer your question, no it's not a bad thing to be a virgin, nor is it in any way unattractive. :D



i totally agree with this!!

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Dan 19 days, 16 hours ago

I would think it would be a turn on for her, or a challenge to see if she can corrupt you into bed. But if she is too nice she might not want to be the one to do it if she isn't really-really into you. So I would hold off telling her until you already have strong feelings for each other, better still have sex with her, then tell her, she will feel very privileged to have broken you in. Or you could go for a nice girl who is also a virgin, but then it just may never happen because you are both so prudish. I don't get what the big real is, having sex doesn't mean you have to stay together for your entire live and get married. Its natural, get it while you can if I was you, otherwise you will just feel like you missed out later when you are no longer able to meet pretty young ladies because you will have missed the boat like I have.

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Sara 9 days, 19 hours ago

Something I don't understand is why people always put such an emphasis on virginity. Granted, I know that it's a good thing to be one. And I will proudly admit that I'm 18 years old, and still a virgin. But when people ask me how I can I be a virgin, and the only thing that I know to tell them is that it's not that hard. :?

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby nomis 9 days, 12 hours ago

Yes, bad. Go get laid and quit putting so much pressure on yourself and that one special someone out there >;C

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Corentin 9 days, 12 hours ago

Virginity is good , especially when you loose it ! :lol:

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