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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Kees 172 days, 2 hours ago

Mmm... is experience a bad thing? I guess that it is a matter of confidence. If you are confident about it, it is definitely a good thing. If it makes you insecure, yeah... it could turn against you. My advice: Be proud and confident and nope, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin in the same way that there is nothing wrong with experience.

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Moo 171 days, 7 hours ago

It's good thing .Keep it for the right person you love.Let's still keep it.

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby AlisonF 169 days, 21 hours ago

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Your choices in life are to be respected.

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Alma 169 days, 9 hours ago

Being a virgin is a thing you should be proud of. For me it is. When u got marrid and have it to the one u married with u would feel proud. Being virgin on the Day of your wedding is a great thing t be proud of.
Keep it till you can!

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Handy 160 days, 2 hours ago

First of all maintaining your virginity is an honor. Second of all you have shown morals and have stood up for what is right. Third of all many times in this culture people in high-school have a lot of peer pressure and if you are able to go through that you are grounded in wonderful morals. Fourth perhaps you will attract someone with your same morals and be happier in the end as a result of that. Many people loose their virginity because of curiosity, peer pressure, different attitudes such as, it's up to date, we got to try this, this is my first time, giving in to sex drive, some think it is something to brag about. I think that whether we have honored our virginity or not is really nobody elses business except the person you are dating. Some people will say tmi (too much information) so make sure that the person you are talking to is someone you feel comfortable with that you trust and you know they will not give you the weird feeling. The weird feeling is awkward and so if that is something you choose to share make it personal to the one that counts when asked or discussed. If you are with 4 or 5 people and want to discuss it ask yourself, am I comfortable sharing it with each one of these people as individuals before I open my mouth? Only if the answer is yes should you share such information. This information is priviledged and should be controlled. I think maintaining virginity until the day you get married is honorable and highly respectful. I think that is the right choice that will assist in the potential for a very good relationship. Remember there are also many other faucets of a relationship too.

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby muroTurco 159 days, 15 hours ago

For who?
Is it possible to save virginity for ever?
So...
Go on! :)

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby jaffy 159 days, 11 hours ago

applause for you dobby..that's a good thing your in your moral..im a virgin too..and im proud of it..
coz virginity for me is important..however for some it might be ok to lose it well i respect their choice..anyway there's nothing wrong also for losing it..we'll all go through that...shine at your most dobby :P

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby coton 158 days, 23 hours ago

I don't know that making it an upfront issue is the best thing to do unless you think she's wanting sex. When guys start making sexual comments towards me, infering that they may or may not want have sex initially, but believe in it once they get into a relationship, I respond, "I am not in to pre-marital sex." But I don't throw myself out there like a billboard announcing it to everyone. Why? Because then, in essence, you become a "target." A "challenge." I think moreso from a woman being a virgin and the guy going after the challenge. Just stay confident and in control.

One thing to point out, even people that aren't virgins, may want to avoid having pre-marital sex. Be honest with intentions, whatever they are. Be proud of your virginity. It is completely lost in our society today. Just don't allow that strength to become your weakness with unnecessary problems from the outside.

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Einjo 156 days, 9 hours ago

You know what?? this is sooooo totally goin to be straight up and straight forward, koz thats the type of person ii am. . . >

The gurls you dating bro are straight up LOOSERS. . . >
They want you to speak of nothing but the truth and then they go ahead and slam you because of that?? ii hate it when people say "tell the truth" and when you do they cant even handle it, and any gurl who makes you feel awkward for bein a virgin are just straight hormone racing-low selfesteem idiots. . . >

Thats straight up discrimination, there is no difference between that or telling that person that your from this ethnicity or that religion and out of no where a total breeze of awkwardness, silence or even a burst of laughter comes over, its not right.

You can only give your virginity away once, and if you holding it for mariage or maybe you havent met that one person whom you love than ii congratulate you man, the world has changed and you dont meet people like that often, it just shows that you have self control and dignity, theres absolutly nothing wrong with being a virgin. . . >


Hope ii helped

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Re: Is virginity a bad thing?

Postby Ikechukwu 155 days, 3 hours ago

BEING A VIRGIN IS GOOD, I think that's my own view point. I actually want to drop an advice to any that is interested to know, that waiting till the right TIME AND PERSON IS THE BEST. Ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P

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