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Is it really that wrong to ask someone to quit drinking

Postby Baddingo 8 days, 11 hours ago

So i broke up with this young lady cause she drank like a fish , ran her head into walls , jumped her car over roundabouts plastered with other guys in the car all while i'm working my ass off , putting myself through college trying to make a better life for both of us. Was this { } close to marraige with her. but she went out drinking with friends on the evening that I was going to ask her didn't come ###w since she only works five hours a day she spends her time gossiping with random people trying to make my life hell. We both have poor communication skills when it comes to relationships , but come on really

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Re: Is it really that wrong to ask someone to quit drinking

Postby TheBusiness 7 days, 12 hours ago

move on mate.. she aint worth the effort..

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Re: Is it really that wrong to ask someone to quit drinking

Postby inneedoffun 7 days, 9 hours ago

It's not wrong to ask but unless it is something she wants to get past there is nothing for you to do. As business said, move on.

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Re: Is it really that wrong to ask someone to quit drinking

Postby Baddingo 4 days, 23 hours ago

Ok so now what do I do about her spreading slander all over town . She has this thing about walking around telling everyone she know .how "bad" of aperson I am . Now normally this wouldn't bother me but every where I go (small town I guess) these individuals want to make me out as the bad guy.

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Re: Is it really that wrong to ask someone to quit drinking

Postby Ross Jackson 4 days, 23 hours ago

if it makes me better looking in the woman's eyes... i would encourage her to keep drinking ^^

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Re: Is it really that wrong to ask someone to quit drinking

Postby KME 4 days, 17 hours ago

Sounds like a tough one. If there making you out to be the bad one ask em some simple questions, 'how long did she stay with you? so can i really have been that bad?'
Basically i seem to find a lot of alcoholics (if there not there already there on there way to been one) I wont put up with that and hell i dont have to! Its one thing to have a social drink, but if you cant go two nights in a row without having one or winging the hole time how one drink wont hurt ya Im OUT that simple.

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Re: Is it really that wrong to ask someone to quit drinking

Postby TheBusiness 4 days, 15 hours ago

Baddingo wrote:Ok so now what do I do about her spreading slander all over town . She has this thing about walking around telling everyone she know .how "bad" of aperson I am . Now normally this wouldn't bother me but every where I go (small town I guess) these individuals want to make me out as the bad guy.


you could either fight fire with fire and throw her skeletons out of the closet, or you just ignore em really.. though either way its between a rock and a hard place.. yea small towns, close dramas and everyone knows everyone scenario, you can only say so much till that well of slander dries up and she got nothing else.. time could tell?

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Re: Is it really that wrong to ask someone to quit drinking

Postby Delilah 3 days, 11 hours ago

Baddingo wrote:Ok so now what do I do about her spreading slander all over town . She has this thing about walking around telling everyone she know .how "bad" of aperson I am . Now normally this wouldn't bother me but every where I go (small town I guess) these individuals want to make me out as the bad guy.


prove them wrong, just keep doing your thing, its a small town, people aren't blind[for the most part] if they haven't already noticed that she drinks a lot and lies the soon will.. then they will start putting the two together.. hardworking kid going to school vs. drunk chick.. people in small towns gossip a lot, mostly because they really have nothing better to do...

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Re: Is it really that wrong to ask someone to quit drinking

Postby AnT 3 days, 9 hours ago

Delilah wrote:
Baddingo wrote:Ok so now what do I do about her spreading slander all over town . She has this thing about walking around telling everyone she know .how "bad" of aperson I am . Now normally this wouldn't bother me but every where I go (small town I guess) these individuals want to make me out as the bad guy.


prove them wrong, just keep doing your thing, its a small town, people aren't blind[for the most part] if they haven't already noticed that she drinks a lot and lies the soon will.. then they will start putting the two together.. hardworking kid going to school vs. drunk chick.. people in small towns gossip a lot, mostly because they really have nothing better to do...

I agree 100%

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