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is it just me or...

Postby ♠ JC ♠ on Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:55 pm

To all the ladies out there, i dont know if im making a huge generalization here but what ive noticed a lot in girls, its that when it comes down to it and we screw up its always the bad things that come to haunt us, i mean everyone screws up and i think its good to leave past things in the past, thats why its called the past, just makes me mad when a girl remembers all the times i screw up, but not when i made her really happy that certain day :(
i guess it IS human nature to remember the bad things before the good though, i dunno, anyways! Reply and dont hate XD

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Re: is it just me or...

Postby Char on Mon Mar 30, 2009 2:49 pm

yes~ research suggests that recalling the negative is much easier for most as compared to recalling the positive or neutral aspects of a situation/person.

methinks they have not had closure if it keeps coming up, and if they have said the last time that they have found closure and it comes up again I would be feeling that someone was trying to use emotional blackmail. At the end of the day, it is their baggage and they are choosing to carry it around. You are not a Sherpa. I normally suggest to people that they leave the bag under a tree as no one else will steal it :-)But if they want to keep it they have to carry it themselves.

Though, I tend to be open to helping people unpack a bit of it as long as its not being thrown at me :-)

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Re: is it just me or...

Postby Kirsty on Mon Mar 30, 2009 8:53 pm

I do it! Every little detail stays in ma head. Could write a novel on my ex lol however i do remember good stuff even though there wasnt much & something bad usually followed

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Re: is it just me or...

Postby ♠ JC ♠ on Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:30 pm

awww sorry to hear that kirsty, and yeah it is easier to remember all the bad things before the good, sucks but its true, personally i remember the good because thats what its all about :)

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Re: is it just me or...

Postby Karmallama on Tue Mar 31, 2009 6:32 am

I'm gonna find me a hotty with amnesia.

THAT should do the trick :D
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Re: is it just me or...

Postby ♠ JC ♠ on Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:22 am

rofl

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Re: is it just me or...

Postby Kirsty on Tue Mar 31, 2009 2:11 pm

Dont be sorry made me the person a am and gave me ma daughter so thats 2 good things lol.



Amnesia? That film 50 1st dates came 2 mind there lol

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