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[Amir]

What is the opinion of women with regards to 'experience'?

I mean, some men have had more partners than the Empire State building has floors while on the other extreme, some would get infinity if they divide any numeric value with the amount of partners they've had (which, depending on who you talk to, can be easily remedied).

Many women I know like to be in the arms of an experienced lover. Like any other skill though, practice makes perfect and an experienced lover will have had many liaisons before being with the said woman. As many of you women might've experienced, fumbling sex can turn into rather bad sex.

On the other hand, I know women who feel pressured when they're with a lover whom they know to have been 'around' and as such, are less comfortable being with that said lover leading to a less enjoyable time. The fumbling in love-making to them are charming rather than grating and they'd take (more) innocence over (more) experience any day.

In summary, my question is this:

After weighing in the pros and cons, do women prefer experience (and the 'player' that comes with it) or does the lack of it (and the perceived innocence) appeal more? I know there are two school of thoughts here but I'm just looking for an indication on which is more preferred.

[Slick3000]

Who knows what the heck we want..lol My best Friend also recently divorced from a 20 year relationship is dating ###d she seems very satisfied with their lack of expierence, she says they are more eager to please..but then same note there is something to be said for a man who knows all the right things to say and do in the bedroom. So I got no straight answer for you.. but if you "leave her looking for her earrings and underwear you probably did OK"

[Amir]

Hahaha! Thanks for the input. Yeah, it does get very confusing when men can never tell what women want. On a good day, we find it charming or exciting. We tell ourselves it keeps life interesting.

On a bad day, we just wanna get a stiff drink and watch the sports channel.

[Elma]

What is the opinion of women with regards to 'experience'?

I mean, some men have had more partners than the Empire State building has floors while on the other extreme, some would get infinity if they divide any numeric value with the amount of partners they've had (which, depending on who you talk to, can be easily remedied).

Many women I know like to be in the arms of an experienced lover. Like any other skill though, practice makes perfect and an experienced lover will have had many liaisons before being with the said woman. As many of you women might've experienced, fumbling sex can turn into rather bad sex.

On the other hand, I know women who feel pressured when they're with a lover whom they know to have been 'around' and as such, are less comfortable being with that said lover leading to a less enjoyable time. The fumbling in love-making to them are charming rather than grating and they'd take (more) innocence over (more) experience any day.

In summary, my question is this:

After weighing in the pros and cons, do women prefer experience (and the 'player' that comes with it) or does the lack of it (and the perceived innocence) appeal more? I know there are two school of thoughts here but I'm just looking for an indication on which is more preferred.

One thing to be with a man who has experience but another thing to be with someone that has sex with everything that moves and wears a short skirt.

I would like to find a man that doesn´t go around sleeping with every woman he sees, but he has to have some experience tho.

[Amir]

One thing to be with a man who has experience but another thing to be with someone that has sex with everything that moves and wears a short skirt.

I would like to find a man that doesn´t go around sleeping with every woman he sees, but he has to have some experience tho.

I'm sure there are some out there but I gotta admit, my circle of friends consists of people in 2 different ends of the extremes. Hmm...well maybe more on the 'player' side. With the current focus on careers, both genders hardly have the opportunity to establish a meaningful relationship and we tend to look for love in whatever form we can get.

[Ian]

I found that my wife was intimidated a bit by my experience. She enjoyed it very much of course but she was also quite shy at first. I do not think people should be judged on the amount of sexual partners they've had it's all good experience, and just because someone has been around it doesn't mean that they played anyone.