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[Nick]

I have special feeling for a girl I met some months ago although I havent yet told her verbally that I like her.
She always tells me I am special and different person for her than her other mates...But whry? I only tell her she is beautiful and nice girl...
....I started loving her in time but I could not tell her till now...because I am afraid that I will lose her If i do so...because she sometimes use the sentence: 'you are my best friend ' ...and I am not quite sure she loves me...I never bought a gift so far as I dont want to do it now...except admiring her..
But she always comes to me and keep asking to show her something about academic staffs in school...
Whenever we meet, we spent more time than we expected because she tells me she is so happy when she spend time with me...and I realized she is sometimes jelous whenever I talk to her friends (girls)..

So, PLEASE give you opinion..., what should I do to know if she loves me or not with no verbal communication ??????

[ali zaidi]

I DONT KNOW YAAR

[Optiron]

You just lay it out there on the line and suck it up and tell her how you feel. Be confident and sincere. If she loves you then she will be receptive and things will be ok, if she does not then it was not meant to be but I can tell you this...not very many women are attracted to a man who is not confident and willing to take a chance. And leaving things in limbo to long will only serve to make it less likely to work out. So suck it up, say how you feel and let nature take its course. Don't be a pussy. You can go out and make things happen for you or you can sit back and let things happen to you.

[charlestoungue]

don't say anything. tell her with your eyes and body language; cross the line whenever you get the chance; just wait for the signal and whenever she messes up or you think she feels a little stupid in front of you steal that kiss

just make sure she likes you back of course. she probably does it's just she's just as shy as you.

[Shane]

Next time you are alone put the moves on her

[Misty]

I have to agree with Shane on this one.

Ask her out with just you two, have a great time and at the end kiss the girl. You will know right away if she just wants to be friends. If you get slapped it will be worth it anyway right?

[Steve]

i made same mistake years ago and we drifted apart we now have got back in touch and i have told her how i felt/feel and she told me she felt the same so just take a deep breath and tell her what u got to lose? at least u know what her thoughts are towards you

[Paul]

deep breath n grow a pair lol good luck

[Nick]

Hi friends, thank you all for your nice advice. I did what Misty said...i tell her the same and I usually give her my friendly kiss on her cheeks whenever we meet and go separate. But, I realized that she feels free only whenever she is alone with me, and tries to keep everything in secrete from her friends. Now a days, she is insisting to know the reason why I do different for her...But I answered her because she is also special friend for me in my life but never told her 'I love you'.
So, friends, now i am coming to the edge to tell her or do a steal kiss and see what will happen..
Other wise I also thinking not to see her frequently,,,,and see how she reacts...?

Do u have anything different ???

[Elma]

It looks to me she is in same footsteps as you are.
She is afraid to say it out loud.
Why don´t you go ahead and buy her a little gift, doesn´t have to be expensive....just to see how she reacts and maybe take it from there step by step
Or
You could just simply go to her, sit down with her and tell her how you feel. Then there won´t be any doubt and you two could relax more around each other.