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[ace1478]

how can i tell if a girl really loves me and not just saying she love me?

[Frank]

Ha...in my experience, if the woman is younger than 25, she is probably just saying it. People's idea of what "Love" is these days is really, really screwed up.

[l3oondocksaints]

Its pretty easy to tell if a girl loves you(or atleast thinks that she does)...pull down her pants and check to make sure she is a girl....GIRLS DO NOT USE THE "I LOVE YOU" LINE JUST FOR THE HELL OF IT OR TO GET LAID....that is a guy specific trait....so if she says it...she means it...for now atleast

remember: girls may fake orgasms...guys can fake entire relationships

[Frank]

^Disagreed, sort of. If a woman says it, it is almost guaranteed she believes it. I just don't believe most people can differentiate their feelings of love, caring, lust, etc.

[l3oondocksaints]

I think you just disagreed to be special...because you agreed right afterwards....i am confused

[Frank]

Ahhhh...reading > me. I didn't see the "or atleast thinks that she does" you had in parenthesis.

[shay]

If a woman loves you she will say it because she means it. Unless you're rich, then she's most likely referring to the dead presidents.

[the_freak_you_want]

yeah.. girls normally mean it.. although even sometimes when the love runs out because she been hurt by ya too much... she says it because she doesnt like change... and she scared to move on

[Laura]

I dont know if I'd be willing to take to much advice from a girl with a picthre of a short skirt and hiney.

If she says it she probably means it. Most girls do mean it when they say it. It is based on the qualities in you that you have shown and offer her.

If you need to know more, ask her to think about and tell you what she loves about you. All the qualities that make her feel in love with you.

If you are going to keep the relationship you need to ask yourself if those are base personality qualities of yours- Or, more simply put, will it be easy for you to continue to give her those things

[ace1478]

i posted this question awhile ago the girl i was talkn about left me for a 40 year old man lol im 21 hes like older than my dad an my dad is only like 39 lol... oh well life goes on... i just got to move on.. i knew it was coming so i didnt worry about it to much