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[John]

I have both loved and been loved it was quite some time ago but I used to be engadged for two and a half years (together 3 years), it ended with her breaking my heart though and it's taken years for me to get back on the horse so to speak but now I'm ready, willing and able I'm quite shy though so it's a bit hard, but I'm working on that one the people on this site and especially the girls are awesome and they're helping me a lot with it which I'm very grateful for!

It is great that you are moving past the pain and healing. To love again is awesome and I'm sure you will find someone who will not break your heart. We must be willing to open ourselves up for that possibility though in order to accept the love that is possible. This is much harder to do than to say. Once hurt, as you know, we are not so willing to put our heart in the fire again. But the feeling you had.....was it not worth it?
I think a lot of men are shy. I also think they don't heal or get over hurt as easily as women do. We ladies do not realize how sensitive you really are. I have had a lot of male friends, non-sexual, who shared a lot with me. I was very amazed to find out what teddy bears you really are.
If you have a JR College or Adult Education classes near you they offer classes on how to become less shy. You may want to think about that....or just hang out here.

Thank you! Yes, it was well worth it for sure, some of the best times in my life which I will never forget!
Personally I think that men that aren't in touch with their sensetive side either don't want to show it or just don't care about others so I totaly agree with you, us guys can be real teddy bears sometime
I live in Sweden but I think our Adult Education here might have classes on that, although what I think I need most is to get to know more people around where I live cuz I'm not shy at all with my friends and their families so to be honest I think my shyness is kinda ridiculous cuz I have no real good reason to be shy so I'll get rid of it somehow, I'll just have to summon up some "finnish sisu" (born in Finland) and go for it

[Lady1st]

John, you go for it...whatever it takes you can do it! I do understand as I'm not shy around my friends or family but I am around people I'm just meeting for the first time or just getting to know. It is hard but hey, we can do it.

[John]

John, you go for it...whatever it takes you can do it! I do understand as I'm not shy around my friends or family but I am around people I'm just meeting for the first time or just getting to know. It is hard but hey, we can do it.

Oh yes, when I get in that special mind set that make me feel on top of the world nothing scares me too bad it's been a while since I got there last I feel it creeping up on me though so it feels great and if I can do it, you can to I.m sure of it!