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[James]

I believe some Rick Astley is relevant to this thread...

We're no strangers to love
You know the rules, and so do I
A real commitment's what I'm thinkin' of
You wouldn't get this from any other guy

I... just wanna tell you how I'm feelin'
Gotta make you understand:

I'm never gonna give you up
Never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and
Desert you!

Never gonna make you cry
Never gonna SAY goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie,
And hurt you!

[gzy]

Its true, women some times confuse a lot i just do not get them at times,they fail to notice the one who love em n are head over heels for someone who would just want them for sex n not take em seriously. Ladies please tell me why????

[Bronzeky Lee]

Real men [like me] just have to be firm

[nookes]

hey brett nookes here hope u get this couldnt find another way to reply. not to sure wit photo it is but i have brown hair blue eyes i think im the middle one. i live in whangaz hope to here frm u soon will look in same place where i found the other note. how was ur wekend did u get up to much?

[Quepid]

good one anne... your the kinda girl a guy would like to have conversations with... stay sweet.

[Fonseca]

Being a nice guy, is not good enough, until mid to late 30's. That is when girls start to come out of the Cinderella Syndrome. By the time that happens the nice guy has already settled for someone else. If you are under 30 it is very likely (unless you have witnessed a hard life) that you will argue this point. If you are over 35, I think you would agree (if you are honest). Everyone I have ever asked, pretty much agrees. I can't tell you how many times growing up I heard the words "You are such a good friend" or "you were always there for me, thank you for being such a good friend". Let me just say (for all the guys that have had to live with those words) to all the girls that have ever said those words, : "Your Welcome", But that was your "NICE GUY" and you DIS'd him. But it takes you 20 years to figure it out. But don't worry, I still love you after all these years. Group Hug!

That is true gais.......lol

[Margaret]

Yes it pays to be a gentleman

[Fantasia]

I really wonder why do guys make such a fuss about wether girls like nice guys or not... When I first saw the topic I expected tons of replies from women defending their point of view but what do I find a bunch of guys with or without girlfriend trying to understand women... that's not going to happen... EVER just like one of the guys (don't remember his name:P) pointed clearly, women minds work different than men's but that doesn't mean that someone must think wrong, they're just different but this whole debate seems pointless since you'll never get to a straight YES/NO answer but in my view I would say that YES, GIRLS LIKE NICE GUYS!!! but there is a catch here, everyone have different views of nicesness (not sure this word even exist ), some of them would consider nice guy someone who's hot, great looks, no brains and treat her like shit... would be nice because he had picked her to be his girlfriend, some other ones would find nice in a geeky guy who would do anything to please her and there could be lots and lots of different situations. It's all about testosteron, women are pretty much attracted to that, call it chemistry if you like but that's a fact. And the so-called "bad boys" have plenty of that. Besides some studies (don't really know if they're real and don't really care ) shows that when a woman is on her period is somehow attracted to the "macho men" type. Those chicks that are attracted to bad boys that treat them like shit cannot see beyond the surface, for them the first look is the more important and the appearance, the so called basic instinct (good movie btw) I'd daresay they're at the bottom of the human evolution, it is that attraction for the Alpha Male, the leader of the pack. Those women who choose the "body over intelect or soul" are the most beautiful women in the world and that's about it... that's all they have and they will exploit that to the maximum... a truly bright and smart woman could never compete in beauty vith a dumb one because she knows "there's more in there that meets the eye" and that should be the foundation for a healthy relationship. But unfortunatelly most women wont admit that sex is one of the most important things in a relationship... there must be that sexual bond between a man and a woman that makes things go the right way. Women always say that men are sexually obsessed and they don't take sex like a part of life... women enjoy a good sex just as much as men do but most of them would be ashamed admitting it. Frankly I would love having beside me someone who would not find weird me as a woman playing videogames and have a good sex between dota rounds, going late at night on saturdays and drinking beer and watching football on sundays afternoons... but unfortunately most men consider that too "man-ish" so you're not the only ones having trouble in finding a suitable person... hahaha
Well anyway, I hope I didn't offend anyone with this, I had no intention to do so and if I did I am really sorry but this is how I feel... Obviously this cannot be applies to everyone because there are always the middle type and those who are the exception that confirms the rule )) I am also apologising for this babbling on the men and women way of seeing things because in the end it's just about how everyone feels in particular ) So, good luck boys in finding the right one and ladies, look beyond the "wrapping" though I know most of you do )

OMFG, I just realised how much I was babbling about this... sorry

[APCountryCovers]

the problem is n't that if girls like nice guys , the problem is there is no nice guys these days .
so sure every girl looking for a nice guy .

Ah but there's the paradox... There are plenty of so called "Nice Guys" out there, and girls may be looking for them, but if you're honest with yourself you "don't" really want a nice guy, becuase nice guys equals "Door Matt"

Think about it, nice equals "BOOOORRRRINGGGG!"

If you wonder what I mean, why don't you all go hire the DVD "My Best Friends Girl"... Guys take notice of it

Girls, you know you want that (secretly)... the nice guys never win the hot girl and when they do, it ends in disaster most of the time!!...

You see guys... There's nice guys and then there's "NICE" guys... you don't want to be the latter... Confused?

[Matt Wald]

I really wonder why do guys make such a fuss about wether girls like nice guys or not... When I first saw the topic I expected tons of replies from women defending their point of view but what do I find a bunch of guys with or without girlfriend trying to understand women... that's not going to happen... EVER just like one of the guys (don't remember his name:P) pointed clearly, women minds work different than men's but that doesn't mean that someone must think wrong, they're just different but this whole debate seems pointless since you'll never get to a straight YES/NO answer but in my view I would say that YES, GIRLS LIKE NICE GUYS!!! but there is a catch here, everyone have different views of nicesness (not sure this word even exist ), some of them would consider nice guy someone who's hot, great looks, no brains and treat her like shit... would be nice because he had picked her to be his girlfriend, some other ones would find nice in a geeky guy who would do anything to please her and there could be lots and lots of different situations. It's all about testosteron, women are pretty much attracted to that, call it chemistry if you like but that's a fact. And the so-called "bad boys" have plenty of that. Besides some studies (don't really know if they're real and don't really care ) shows that when a woman is on her period is somehow attracted to the "macho men" type. Those chicks that are attracted to bad boys that treat them like shit cannot see beyond the surface, for them the first look is the more important and the appearance, the so called basic instinct (good movie btw) I'd daresay they're at the bottom of the human evolution, it is that attraction for the Alpha Male, the leader of the pack. Those women who choose the "body over intelect or soul" are the most beautiful women in the world and that's about it... that's all they have and they will exploit that to the maximum... a truly bright and smart woman could never compete in beauty vith a dumb one because she knows "there's more in there that meets the eye" and that should be the foundation for a healthy relationship. But unfortunatelly most women wont admit that sex is one of the most important things in a relationship... there must be that sexual bond between a man and a woman that makes things go the right way. Women always say that men are sexually obsessed and they don't take sex like a part of life... women enjoy a good sex just as much as men do but most of them would be ashamed admitting it. Frankly I would love having beside me someone who would not find weird me as a woman playing videogames and have a good sex between dota rounds, going late at night on saturdays and drinking beer and watching football on sundays afternoons... but unfortunately most men consider that too "man-ish" so you're not the only ones having trouble in finding a suitable person... hahaha
Well anyway, I hope I didn't offend anyone with this, I had no intention to do so and if I did I am really sorry but this is how I feel... Obviously this cannot be applies to everyone because there are always the middle type and those who are the exception that confirms the rule )) I am also apologising for this babbling on the men and women way of seeing things because in the end it's just about how everyone feels in particular ) So, good luck boys in finding the right one and ladies, look beyond the "wrapping" though I know most of you do )

OMFG, I just realised how much I was babbling about this... sorry

There are a few reasons why I make a big deal about it. First of all I have talked to so many women where all they would talk about is how bad there relationship is and making but they did nothing to change it or to end it no matter how abusive bad the relationship is. And lastly I have seen so many bad relationships take the step into domestic violence where the women was slapped, punched, or even thrown down cement staircases. There has to be a point when the woman stands back to reevaluate the situation, but I never see it happen