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[Jeppe]

Hey

I just wanted to ask something since I'm abit unsure on the subject myself.
I've for around 6 months ago, had somewhat of a relationship to a girl 1 year older than me. Erhm all started out good, I've wroted her some sms, told her that I though that she was a lovely girl, and she responded in a good way. anywho. After 2 dates I finally grabbed myself and kissed her (and here on I thought it could only be better). But after some time, she said that she didn't have time due to various reasons. And I just didn't understand, cause whenever we was together I treated her nice, bought dinner at a local restaurant we have over here and tickets for the movies. And I'd just like to say, that Im a nice guy, I've never been more than nice to other people, and . I... I just don't understand.
Well, after 1 month without having seen her, I made a surprise visit, and asked her if anything was wrong, and got the impression that she'd just been busy. But she still wrote, when I asked her if she wanted to be together with me, that she couldn't do to various reasons. So after a while I wrote to her, that she had to make up her mind, if she wanted to be with me or just call it off, she replied that she didn't know, so as the friendly guy I am, I gave her a month where we agreed she would give me an answer to my question. A month went by, and no answer, so I wrote again and she didn't answered me. So I had to write her a sms telling her, that if she wanted it that way, not answering. Then we could just be friends.
she relied : Do what you want, I do not care.

I just wanted to ask, if I did something wrong? Or is it I who have been treated badly (was kinda the first girl in my life / so feel abit bad at the moment)

hope you will answer my message

(sorry for any bad gramma, I'm a Dane, so not that top notch at writing english)

regards Jeppe

[Kelly]

Hi Jeppe,

Unfortunately for you it seems you had a bad experience although you are a good person. In my opinion she wasn't ready for a committed relationship but didn't know how to tell you or perhaps she isn't as nice a person as you. Please don't let this experience sour your outlook on dating and being a nice person. Be yourself and someday the woman that is meant to be yours will love that self. Hope I was helpful.

[Paul]

life like that pal onwards and upwards there is always someone for everyone in life and your juliet could be the next one to serve you coffee

[Rasta Government]

Well my friend...... she wasn't ready for a perpetual relationship. however," life goes on" my advice to you is that never let a woman knows how much you really care.......and i hope that the next time you meet someone you will be yourself and take it slow, at the same time...... take your time to observe... .

[Jeppe]

Thanks for your replies guys/girl

- Overall it sounds that you all are agreeing with me.


So basicly just being yourself and taking it slow, is the way to go I reckon?
( kind of a rookie here, not really that experienced)

hope to hear from you again

Jeppe

[Kristofer]

Hah, I had a similar experience as you did Jeppe, and even wrote about it here somewhere..

Although I didn't give her month or two, I confronted her and asked her right away, she wasn't interested so I moved on.. It happens, and girls like that aren't interesting anyway. So gl with ya and hope you find someone that is worth it soon...