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[Kickazz006]

I've noticed that most women make the mistake of having too much fun, not being protected, and then they spend the next 20 years of their "youth" (20-40) being a parent.

It is hard to find a woman who has time for you, has a job, a vehicle, a proper place to live, and can hold her own WITHOUT you. I am still trying to find someone who doesn't need me; I just want her to want and love me. Someone who I can enjoy being around, not someone who I have to babysit their bank account and my own.

I have my finances in order, its extremely hard to find a woman who is logically rational with their life and wants a good future.

-Scott

[carolyn]

Why can't most girls be honest and admit that they are shallow, and they care about a nice face and body, and not even care about the feelings, then later on life end up regretting it, because they did not find the right man,

You're kidding right? How many men look beyond the face and body and care about feelings? Why do you think makeup and body "products/surgeries" make trillions of dollars off women? The right man is simple equation for most women: good job + help take care of family + input into every day life + help around the house + treat her like a queen = and what won't she do for you - irregardless of how you look?

[kenny]

if you are refering to me..i am sorry for that..how do i know what is behind the picture?so to speak..i was not rude..i am by no means stuck up..nor am i the cheerleader type..just a girl!

Ya you better not talk bad adout her.. She has been a friend for a month and she is different. Trust me when i say that. And about you question... Im wandering the same thing... How can a girl go out with a total jerk and treat guys like me and you like shit... its just a girl thing....never be able to explain it.

[infamous]

OK about what happened earlier in that chatroom with that girl was a BIG misunderstanding. I talked to her and she apologized because she thought for a reason i was referring to her... i let her know it wasn't about her, she apologized, i apologized for the misconception everything is ok between me and her. She tried deleting it but it won't delete and so did I. So please ladies and gentlemen disregard the topic where she thought i was talking about her.

[Simon]

You're kidding right? How many men look beyond the face and body and care about feelings? Why do you think makeup and body "products/surgeries" make trillions of dollars off women? The right man is simple equation for most women: good job + help take care of family + input into every day life + help around the house + treat her like a queen = and what won't she do for you - irregardless of how you look?

How many women do the same, in the end there are primeval instincts at work, procreation! we are programed to look for certain features with in a partner to attain health and suitability.

As stated above confidence is a key factor, this I am only just finding out after 33 years of life.

[infamous]

Right, i see where you are coming from. But like i said i am confident, it hasn't been a flaw for me. And i don't pretend to be confident either. So you're telling me that a douche can pretend to be confident and yet attain a really good girl treat her like crap and get away with it?( a well rounded girl).And leave it to the poor few to clean up their mess? Not that we don't mind, but it gets annoying after a while if every girl we date we end up putting their broken hearts back together. It seems to me that majority of girls these days use the nice settled guys to get a recharge on their battery. I have treated so many girls right, on second thought every girl i've known i've treated well. Even throughout high school i was considered the sweetest and most loyal guy, the guy a girl -or so i thought- wanted. I was the bad ass when needed to be. I stood up for them where no one else would. I did many things for them no one else did, and not just because they were my girlfriends, its just in me to be caring, helpful and respectful to others. I must be searching for girls in the way wrong section. What else could it be? Are girls evolving into even more complex beings because if they are it's really hard to keep up and know what they really do want?

[Richard]

if you are refering to me..i am sorry for that..how do i know what is behind the picture?so to speak..i was not rude..i am by no means stuck up..nor am i the cheerleader type..just a girl!

Ya you better not talk bad adout her.. She has been a friend for a month and she is different. Trust me when i say that. And about you question... Im wandering the same thing... How can a girl go out with a total jerk and treat guys like me and you like shit... its just a girl thing....never be able to explain it.

Because these 'jerks' have alpha male traits and u dont.

[Simon]

Right, i see where you are coming from. But like i said i am confident, it hasn't been a flaw for me. And i don't pretend to be confident either. So you're telling me that a douche can pretend to be confident and yet attain a really good girl treat her like crap and get away with it?( a well rounded girl).And leave it to the poor few to clean up their mess? Not that we don't mind, but it gets annoying after a while if every girl we date we end up putting their broken hearts back together. It seems to me that majority of girls these days use the nice settled guys to get a recharge on their battery. I have treated so many girls right, on second thought every girl i've known i've treated well. Even throughout high school i was considered the sweetest and most loyal guy, the guy a girl -or so i thought- wanted. I was the bad ass when needed to be. I stood up for them where no one else would. I did many things for them no one else did, and not just because they were my girlfriends, its just in me to be caring, helpful and respectful to others. I must be searching for girls in the way wrong section. What else could it be? Are girls evolving into even more complex beings because if they are it's really hard to keep up and know what they really do want?

Women confuse the hell out of me there is no manual they want what they want when they want it, where as most bloke are happy to go with the flow. Whats worst is they want you to know what they want and when they want it. So not only have you to be unpredictable, exciting, valiant caring, loving (and what ever else you can through in) you've got to be stable. Which to me seams a contradiction.

[Tobmaster]

What is up with everyone? Just live your life the best you can and don't worry about the rest. Be true to yourself and if no one want who you are, then that is their loss. You can't be complaining about being horribly single in your early twenties - there is so much life to live, don't worry so much and you might get somewhere - the best women are usually the ones you never expect to be in your life.

It isn't really that women are inherently shallow or enjoy being around asses, it is more that most good guys are pansies/wussies. Don't go up to a girl like you're in elementary: "I like you will you go out with me?" Just find someone you think is worth getting to know and invite them somewhere. Keep everything light; your first, second, ninth, fifty fourth, dates probably wont amount to anything further. Also, keep in mind that us guys are probably even more shallow than women, if you only ask out the top tier in the looks department, you'll have much less success.

Although, the really young still have that skewed view of life and wants what appears to be the best, not someone that suits them the best. It takes a little bit for them to catch on...

[Kickazz006]

Lets take this into example: In my "group" at work (we collect money), there are 10 of us.

my 2 Mgr's. both very happily married, no kids yet

2 guys (me, and another) - neither have kids

6 women. 5 Have children. 1 is married.

all 5 that have children hate their baby's fathers

.... I notice a trend. Anyone else? We are all between 20-30