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[Hubbs]

I seem to have trouble with this, because most of the women I know have alot of qualities I like and I'm attracted to them. The only time I am comfortable around them as 'just friends' is when they are married it seems...

Most of the guys that I know, that are most comfortable with this are guys that have sisters. They grew up being the 'big brother' and therefore know how the other big brothers feel, as well as just hanging out with a member of the opposite sex having fun. Unfortunately, I don't have any sisters - I have two older brothers lol, and growing up, I didn't really hang out with girls other than K-3rd or so (when I still lived in Cali).

I just really feel out of my element around attractive women - not sure how else to describe it. It's like I almost feel bad even looking at them because 'they must get that all the time'.

Are there any tips, or advice to help with this?

[Kathy]

Just be yourself. I can't seem to find guys that want to be "just friends" unless I work with them and since I got divorced that doesn't even happen. It seems like everyone is looking for "the one" and are in a rush to find her. The last date I went on felt like a job interview. I don't date much, I just like having good friends to go do things with.

[kellbellgirl]

Treat them how you treat your male friends. Stay in your bubble, when a guy faces a woman in a close distance some might think you are interested in a relationship.

[ㄚūKǐ]

yes just be yourself!
and i believe one day the woman belongs to you will come to you .

[Hubbs]

Thank you for all of the advice Friends have been telling me pretty much the same thing, just to be myself, but I guess I just needed to hear it from some outside sources. I appreciate it