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[Victoria]

I am now taking myself out of this debate...going silly ...take care .Viv

Hello Vivienne, I hope that you were not offended with what I said, I have not come here to offend anyone. I noticed that you left after I posted what I thought. I only passed on what the guys at work say about women. Why they think the way they do or want what they want who knows, its a mine field. Apologies to you. Vicky

[Chris]

Caps lock off, for crying out loud. And the same thing can be said about women. Why aren't women ever satisfied? I think it's the fact that we're human beings. We're creatures that have a decent amount of time to do several things in life. There's no point in asking a question that's been asked billions of times throughout the century. Search for the source, and satisfy your man, you'll get the same in return.
But what do I know! I'm just 18.... -_-

[Victoria]

Caps lock off, for crying out loud. And the same thing can be said about women. Why aren't women ever satisfied? I think it's the fact that we're human beings. We're creatures that have a decent amount of time to do several things in life. There's no point in asking a question that's been asked billions of times throughout the century. Search for the source, and satisfy your man, you'll get the same in return.
But what do I know! I'm just 18.... -_-

Hi there 18! I can tell you that I am a pretty much satisified woman and want or ask for nothing. I say live and let live. If either sex want something different well go for it. Just enjoy your life its a one shot and not a rehearsal! Regards.

[Chris]

Caps lock off, for crying out loud. And the same thing can be said about women. Why aren't women ever satisfied? I think it's the fact that we're human beings. We're creatures that have a decent amount of time to do several things in life. There's no point in asking a question that's been asked billions of times throughout the century. Search for the source, and satisfy your man, you'll get the same in return.
But what do I know! I'm just 18.... -_-

Hi there 18! I can tell you that I am a pretty much satisified woman and want or ask for nothing. I say live and let live. If either sex want something different well go for it. Just enjoy your life its a one shot and not a rehearsal! Regards.

Precisely!

[Ray]

In reply to the question,when I was 58 I had a relationship with a woman 19 years younger than me,at first it was great we went everywhere together enjoyed the same thing,s but after the first year or so I began to realise that I was loosing friends and not spending as much time with my family as I used too which is why I came home from working abroad, after a great deal of thought I came to the conclusion that the whole relationship was just an ego trip on my part so we ended it so for any older man looking for younger women think about what you want from a relationship

[Dale]

Hey! The same goes 4 women also! As we venture forth into another of our life's scripts...passages.."we" gender non specific.....depending on our relationships' since past...we seek out bold new adventures...whatever..that means to all of us...so let's stop with the "male or female bashing" and get with a new program...and enjoy a new person's connection...again..whatever this means to you.......to use the newly coined phrase "friend with benefits." Heck.. I'm doing a 9am/10am aerobics class 3x a wk and I'm the only guy with 19 women...and I'm rocking & rolling at the very young age of 67! And with all that spandex butt moving about..it's sorta difficult keeping focused on the moves.....and we share alot of laughs....and have developed new friendships...that are special...and yes.....with benefits...let your mind wander on that! The Journey Is The Destination.

[Maria]

Who's not satisfied?! I am! And, yes, I agree with the comment 'men and woman bashing'. I also think it's time to forget the sex issue. There are only two kinds on the earth and I really don't think we're that much different. (side step here ... go to UTube and look for a guy by the name of Gangor. He hold seminars to help people get along with each other. I'm not sure of the exact title of the video anymore but it has to do with the difference between men's and women's brains and how they work. This will definitely make your day!)The problem, as I see it, the more you get or have, the more you want. So hold back a little. Make it interesting. When someone complains about my appearance, I just walk away. There are just too many people out there trying to make themselves feel good, or superior, or whatever you want to call it, by putting others down. This is just tooooo juvenile. My Dad always told me it takes two to tango. So, I think that it's better not to feed the fire. Why let someone else (with complexes) ruin your day!

[Darlin]

Well as you said you do it rigth, would love to find out...

[Basil the Shepherd]

No-one has mentioned the other points, although Mike has spelled out most of it.
1. Biology and the selfish gene. Older men are still fertile and capable of breeding. Older women can't and so biology drives the older male to still look for a younger mate.
2. Economy: passive females (forgive me for this, it is not intended as derogatory) seek power and security in a male, whether it be money, authority, intellect, etc.
Me? I've bred my share of offspring, so I look for the other attractants in a female, the main one being friendship and lack of an agenda. Openmindedness is always appealing. However looks still come into it because culture drives us to choose the more attractive person. The question being: what is attractive? To say looks alone would be shallow.