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[Brenda]

I have been reading a lot of imprudent comments in some sections especially "best pick-up lines", which should be titled "worse pick-up lines", although far from being a prude, I think it is rather disgusting to read on an open forum some of the descriptive language. Why on earth are you morons on FreeHookup anyway, you will never get a decent partner if you act and speak so shabbily. If you want to be that way in private with another consenting person, that is your business, but please exercise some decorum when here on FreeHookup which is read by many people, older and younger. There is too much filth in this world already, you are polluting what started off to be a nice social meeting place, and turning into a pig-sty. Grow up or keep the language cleaner, please.

[Carol]

Well done Brenda; you tell 'em!

[Easy]

Very well said, There should be a place where grown ups, can go and meet others with out all the drama and as you said filth. personal things between two people should be personal, not public, thats why there are so many other sites. lets face it we are secure in who we are and if we havent by now discovered what it is all about and got our priorities in order then we couldnt find this place any way, kudoos Brinda

[Brenda]

I just had to tell it like it is.....the world pays too much homage to these ill-bred brats, and we have to sort them out, by letting them know that their conduct is not going to be tolerated. And, guess what, you girls/ladies out there are too blame also, as you encourage and accept such crudeness and think its cutsie, just because a fella is paying some, although inappropriate, attention to you. Surely, you are not that hard up! Yuk! Didnt your mothers teach you higher standards. Ladies, it is our sole responsibility to set our standards and look after ourselves so we are not treated in any way less than what we deserve. If I knew that some guy was disrespecting my daughter both her father and myself would perform if done already a second circumcision on him without anaesthetic. Now that is being crude, I apologise, but, I get so angry at people who just "settle",
everyone is special and should be treated as such. I am now getting off my soap-box!

[Rosemarie]

This the second forum I've posted on. I wish I found it first. It's the only forum that makes sense. I don't need to continue to preach the points made so far. They are valid. I'm just beginning to answer my question of "Is there life out there?" I will be careful and take care of myself. I don't demand respect, by my behavior I will command respect. (no don't read that wrong). I'm saying I respect myself I wouldn't get to know anyone who doesn't respect themselves. I think that is a basis of a foundation to relate to others. Does it sound idyllic? No, it's ideal.

[Brenda]

It's me here again. It is time for men and women to assert themselves and not to settle for anything or anyone that does not make you feel comfortable. We teach our little ones about inappropriate behaviour, why not teach our bigger ones the same. I wish there was some way we could highlight this forum so more people could contribute, and not just the 50s plus. It's not private so any curious person can peak in, don't the younger generation want to play nice? Girls/Ladies it is up to us to TEACH THEM!

[Alan]

I agree Brenda, "BAD " language is picked up by children too early in life, that is why they are a handful now, there is a time and place for everything and this is not one of them.

[Gayla]

I would just like to say that I was hoping when it said "over 50" that we would not be subjected to crudeness.
But, I also have to add that just because I am over 50 does NOT necessarily mean that I am all grown up! I still haven't decided if I want to be grown up, or not. Check back next week to see if I have decided yet! And have a fun week!

[Karl]

I would like to learn from your more mature ladies. i wanna learn more about women. are you willing to help me.

[Brenda]

I would like to learn from your more mature ladies. i wanna learn more about women. are you willing to help me.

Karl, you are just too sweet. Try to be as mature as you can be, that is, learn, learn, learn, have decent manners, well groomed, have a goal, start saving your money, start working towards your goals, be kind to your mother, sisters, aunties, and all females, be kind to animals. Respect yourself, and treat yourself with dignity, try to get as much out of this big wide beautiful world without endangering yourself or anyone else, be free, be happy, be thankful, be proud of yourself, and treat yourself good.