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[Sparkles]

Hang in there wordwoman! There's still a few of us around, and I know a few more. I'm one of those wierdos that is more worried about true friendship than anything. Ultimately I'd love to have a family, but I just blew 20 years on a bad reationship that I'm still not out of. I'm already out of confidence with women, almost out of time for kids, but I haven't lost my spirit. People think I'm nuts because I can have something totally shitty happen to me and smile. The truth is, by the time you react to the experience, it's already in the past. Learn from it and move on. Find the humor in the irony and smile. Never surrender!!!

Fighting talk Bob...I like that.


Sparkles.

[BojiDreamer]

well I have spent a lot of time waiting for who I thought was my soulmate to realize he really wanted me...I won't tell you how many years I waited...I just waited....I think us nice people are a little gun shy when our hearts have been broken. I have put all that behind me know and am ready to move on....I am excited to maybe meet someone new and make some cool friends along the way......life is too short.... and my other mantra is never make someone a priority who only thinks of you as an option......positive thoughts equals positive results.....happy FreeHookuping everyone!!!

[xv750]

I personally disgree with the last post and believe that most men give themselves an age range and have dated women 7 years younger and 7 years older than myself. The oldest was the sexiest of them all but that was all she had going for her and although the looks get your interest it is the personallity that keeps it there to develop into a relationship.
Women are no different to men when it comes to dating and I often read tall, dark and handsome preferred, never short, fat and ugly.
Before judging us men think about the last time you read a profile that read busty, blonde preferred.

[xv750]

Well, ladies, I have to agree with you all. Men on these dating sites, I believe, look at the pictures only. If you are not young and/or beautiful, you get overlooked. I have finally decided that the dating sites are a great blow to a womans ego. Us honest ones, that post real pictures of us, get overlooked. They don't want to waste their time to see what is inside of us, what makes us tick. If we choose to post our recent pictures and not old or "fixed" up ones (like many women do), we will get overlooked. I'm just not sure, as a single women, where else you would go, alone, to meet a man, or to get a man to pay attention to us, and like at our whole picture, not just the "physical" part of us. I have had a few men approach me on some dating sites, only to find out, they were checking to see either how "easy" I was or how much money I had. (And I do apologize, to the men out there that may read this and disagree.)
Good Luck Ladies!!

Oops this is the message I was replying to when I said the last post

[Sue]

Hi Sparkels you make me smile, your so right and to the point , you remind me of my sister .

[Sparkles]

Hi Sparkels you make me smile, your so right and to the point , you remind me of my sister .

Thanks Sue...is she adorable, witty, intelligent and awesome looking too?
You're lucky to have her. I love my sister too.


Sparkles.

[Glenn]

I personally disgree with the last post and believe that most men give themselves an age range and have dated women 7 years younger and 7 years older than myself. The oldest was the sexiest of them all but that was all she had going for her and although the looks get your interest it is the personallity that keeps it there to develop into a relationship.
Women are no different to men when it comes to dating and I often read tall, dark and handsome preferred, never short, fat and ugly.
Before judging us men think about the last time you read a profile that read busty, blonde preferred.

Priceless! It would probably get responses however, but they would be all negative.

[Glenn]

Amen to that. I wonder if blokes can actually "read between the lines" sometimes.
But I think there are some great blokes out there, but most have been really hurt in the past(nice blokes usually are hurt by someone) and as such are reluctant to take another hit, so to speak.
But I hope you find the man of your dreams, when you do, send his brother to the UK for me.

Sparkles.

"read between the lines"? I'm not admitting anything.

[Sparkles]

You're a very intuitive bloke Glenn..so you don't have to admit to it. Sparkles knows.


Sparkles.

[Mark]

I just turned 61 this month; have been celibate for over ten years so I don't miss or, at this time, even care about making the beast with two backs . I am looking for an IN lady who can be the hand to my glove, love what is in my heart, NOT in my pants, and desire to live with one man for the last years of her life. Love begets love, the ability to communicate when hurt or feeling sad, saying what is in your heart and NEVER going to bed angry or mad are the things I desire in my lady. Walk beside me, not behind or in front of me, for we are one; have some things we enjoy doing together while not giving up our own identities. I am 6'0", 280 lbs., disabled but walk with a cane, enjoy hunting and fishing, well look me up in the community. I do ask any ladies looking to please offer a pic or two, as the truth will come out in the end, I am really looking for a lady with a great smile & a reasonable body for the mileage incurred, I have been rode hard and put up wet more than once myself, so I do understand the facts of live. If you aren't happy with yourself, please don't expect anybody else to feel that way about you. Feel pride in yourself and it will radiate out to those whom you search for! God Bless.
Mark, Terre Haute, IN