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[Sparkles]

Ok..I appreciate I may have opened the floodgates for every strange person. But I will personally kick yer ass if you turn my topic into something less than pure.
OK, so how important is sex to you.
In or out of a relationship?
Does the fact that you're a more mature person mean that one night stands are no longer an option?
Or is it easier to have them when you have no pressure on you?
Thanks.


Sparkles.


Please don't take it to to it's most common denominator...literally.
I should be doing research but I prefer to play today...it's been a difficult one.

[Sparkles]

Ok I'm gonna hit this topic cos I like sex so that makes me an expert...right.

Sex is extremely important in any intimate relationship. Get that right and it works.
If a relationship ain't working even sex won't fix it. It's doomed get over it and move on.
If a relationship works on a practical level but sex isn't good for both people then it's gonna struggle but there is hope.
That's it.

Sparkles.

Anyone agree disagree?

I ain't talking about group sex and swingin' never done it so can't comment.

Sound cool though.

[Lonesome Twin]

Fuelled by alcohol I'm gonna chime in here. Sex is most important in a relationship when it ain't happening. Then you got problems. It's just mortar. It gets taken for granted but if it fails the whole building falls down.

[vet 1]

One night stands not today to many things to worry about std and the like. Think you get more out of sex if you are into the person. You can always show someone what gets your oven going. But it's harder if you are just in it for the sex. Best sex I have ever had was with someone that i was into her as a person not a body. I think you try harder and want to please the person more than if it just a one night stand. Certain things get some people really going where other things do not It can be good sex just not great sex.

[Lonesome Twin]

Remember Making Love? It's better than sex

[Debra]

you're such a romantic...why are you 'Lonesome...'

[Lonesome Twin]

you're such a romantic...why are you 'Lonesome...'

It's more a state of mind than a situation. Pleased to meet you btw x

[Richie Wristrokkit]

you need me...

[Sparkles]

you need me...

For what..exactly...


Sparkles.

[Sparkles]

Ok what I'm picking up here is one word.
Communication.
It's all in communicating what you like and don't like.
It's also about communicating in general I suppose.
Being honest and up front about you..your likes dislikes and being ok with yourself.
Specifically with sex it's about trust.
For me anyway.
I have to feel safe to be myself.
One night stands and fuck buddies I can do...I just choose not to now. But yeah I have. Who hasn't?

Sparkles.