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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby Barbarakhristi 5 days, 4 hours ago

ibizaboy wrote:forget sex focus on foreplay

yummy 8-)

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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby ridha 5 days, 4 hours ago

hi
you must know and bieleve that sex is important in relationship

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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby Drummerboy42 3 days, 11 hours ago

Twenty Four years of Marriage, 3 kids, and she up and leaves us! Comes back shortly afterward and when I ask why she tells me that Love is "Conditional" No crap… Conditional!!! I couldn't believe my ears! It explained why she withheld sex from me for up to 4-6 months at a time! I ended up getting thrown in jail for Domestic Violence/Harassment (no I didn't hit her) several weeks after that for us having a shouting match one day outside her mothers house where she currently lives. All I asked of her to set her off was for an apology for the way she treated me in our marriage?
Psycho or what? Now…because I have been without sex for so long…that’s all I’m focused on! I’m sure it’s a combination of broken ego and lack of intimacy no doubt.
And she wonders why I’m angry???

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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby Brenda 3 days, 9 hours ago

Sparkles wrote:Ok..I appreciate I may have opened the floodgates for every strange person. But I will personally kick yer ass if you turn my topic into something less than pure.
OK, so how important is sex to you.
In or out of a relationship?
Does the fact that you're a more mature person mean that one night stands are no longer an option?
Or is it easier to have them when you have no pressure on you?
Thanks.


Sparkles.


Please don't take it to to it's most common denominator...literally.
I should be doing research but I prefer to play today...it's been a difficult one.


Ms. Sparkles, glad to see you are still on FreeHookup......I am getting rather bored as have had no invites to be "friends"

But, do enjoy reading some of the comments by certain creative writers, you being one of them.
I wonder if there are success stories by using FreeHookup?

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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby My22Twain 2 days, 5 hours ago

Drummerboy42 wrote:Twenty Four years of Marriage, 3 kids, and she up and leaves us! Comes back shortly afterward and when I ask why she tells me that Love is "Conditional" No crap… Conditional!!! I couldn't believe my ears! It explained why she withheld sex from me for up to 4-6 months at a time! I ended up getting thrown in jail for Domestic Violence/Harassment (no I didn't hit her) several weeks after that for us having a shouting match one day outside her mothers house where she currently lives. All I asked of her to set her off was for an apology for the way she treated me in our marriage?
Psycho or what? Now…because I have been without sex for so long…that’s all I’m focused on! I’m sure it’s a combination of broken ego and lack of intimacy no doubt.
And she wonders why I’m angry???


Dude, spend the money - see a therapist.

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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby Barbarakhristi 17 hours, 11 minutes ago

Drummerboy:
Spend the money on a therapist and go to church. :ugeek:

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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby Glenn 11 hours, 30 minutes ago

Barbarakhristi wrote:Umm...I am sorry to see that Sparkles is out of the community just now. hope it's only temporary.
I can't wait to have sex in a relationship :lol:just want the relationship first :shock:and then it will be very important :ugeek:


Yes, very important to make sure the horse goes in FRONT of the cart. ;)

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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby Glenn 11 hours, 10 minutes ago

Drummerboy42 wrote:Twenty Four years of Marriage, 3 kids, and she up and leaves us! Comes back shortly afterward and when I ask why she tells me that Love is "Conditional" No crap… Conditional!!! I couldn't believe my ears! It explained why she withheld sex from me for up to 4-6 months at a time! I ended up getting thrown in jail for Domestic Violence/Harassment (no I didn't hit her) several weeks after that for us having a shouting match one day outside her mothers house where she currently lives. All I asked of her to set her off was for an apology for the way she treated me in our marriage?
Psycho or what? Now…because I have been without sex for so long…that’s all I’m focused on! I’m sure it’s a combination of broken ego and lack of intimacy no doubt.
And she wonders why I’m angry???

Seems all rather typical to me. My .02 c, take it as a lesson learned, move on and make a point of not repeating the same mistake. Let go of the anger, it will only eat at you, besides it sounds like pity is more in order and what ever you do, DON'T try and get the children to take sides, they generally aren't stupid and will see it for what it is.

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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby Glenn 11 hours, 4 minutes ago

Barbarakhristi wrote:Drummerboy:
Spend the money on a therapist and go to church. :ugeek:

I'm more practical, I'd spend it on the divorce lawyer and equalization payments, oh wait a minute, I did. :lol:

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Re: How important is sex in a relationship?

Postby Smokitopaz56 8 hours, 8 minutes ago

In my life, even at this age, I have found relationships to be either sex-based or companionship-based. I have yet to find one that fulfills BOTH sides of a relationship at once!!! To that end, sex is VERY important to me. At our ages now, to be "out there" trying to attract a mate-is SO difficult. Its about finding someone one is comfortable enough with to be themselves with.

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