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[Ronald]

Hi Sparkles,

I think sex is very important but then again I'm only working from memory.

But, seriously it can only happen within a relationship one night stands don't work for me...

cheers

Ron

[ruggedlysexy]

Hi Sparkles,

Sex is a vital and necessary part of any relationship. It brings the partners closer together and makes the whole relationship far more intimate.
Most of us are "normal" human beings who need and desire sex - and the physical contact that it brings.
We all tend to underestimate the importance of touch in this world - whether it is just holding hands etc. It has been scientifically proven that touch is NB and powerful.
The world would be a greater place if we were not so afraid to touch.
This is FACT and not fiction - so I think that shows my attitude towards sex. Let's open our eyes!!

[Sparkles]

Working from memory Ron? I don't believe that for a minute.
Touch is my favorite sense...the one I'd miss the most I think. It's a form of communication and can say so much when words are not enough...or just too much.

Sparkles.

[Barbarakhristi]

Remember Making Love? It's better than sex

Yeah, I remember.

[Glenn]

Remember Making Love? It's better than sex

Vaguely.

[Zonic]

I vaguely remember also. Well, now that I sit and think awhile, it's more like a dream I once had.

[MUDTASTER]

I vaguely remember also. Well, now that I sit and think awhile, it's more like a dream I once had.

Well from my perspective I dont see any reason you should have a problem having a sexual relationship with a man. You seem very attractive to me!! I am sure you could have just about any one you wanted. IF you just put your mind to it. I am a very open type guy about what I want ! But I will always be respectful to a lady because they deserve it, There are ways of letting a woman know how you feel without being vulgar. I like them to know that I will be available when ever they decide to accept me and what I have to offer. To me sexual activity is a vital item in any relationship. Frankly I dont see how your relation ship could be full with out that intimate contact. Well that is one opinion anyway. Im sure that some may disagree with me. To each his own.

[lydiausvi]

That'sa heckuva QUESTION, for a MAN who looks like I do ,n, hasn't had EITHER, since "3-31-91". Women SAY, " Looks do not matter." THAT FUNNY ! It was a CAVE - MAN who 1st said THAT ! He was talking about his neighbors UGLY DAUGHTER ! " LOOKS DO NOT MATTER. IT's WHAT'S ONNA INSIDE THAT COUNTS." He was trying to get into her FURRY PANTIES ! The nosy Cave-woman shoulda stuck around for the WHOLE story, befor deciding that WHAT she heard, sounded good ,n, told the other female CAVERS ! ! ! I haven't found a Woman who believes "THAT", in 18+ years, since I was TORCHED. I HAVE A 60% Body BURN. BUT, at 1st mention, to the BURN, it's like, " HEY ! Where'd she go ? " I'd been talking to her for 15 minutes too ! Kinda like the CHICKEN ,n, the EGG. I've never hadda "F--KING" relationship. The others say, " I LOVE YOU LIKE A BROTHER." Ain't that the " KISSA DOOM " ?

Ah, but there ARE women who honestly do not care about physical scars. I was married to man who had scars over 40% of his body from a fire when he was 5 years old. One of the biggest problems in our relationship was that HE didn't think I could love him for who he was, because of the way he looked -- after all, his female relatives had always told him no woman would ever want him. But, I saw his scars as beautiful patterns on his skin. I loved who he is as a person, his inner spirit. But it wasn't enough; the inner scars were too deep and his self-image was not strong enough to accept my love. When he left, I was devastated. From what you've written, I wonder how you feel about yourself and your looks. All the capitalized words makes your posting look angry.

[Sparkles]

When people are younger looks mean a great deal. Peer pressure plays a huge role in this.
As you age you begin to care what others think. You've taken knock from life and usually ended up dealing with them alone.
When you get to 50 you've done all the preening and image stuff and are more comfortable with the inner person. Now it's time for what you want. No more settling for what doesn't suit me because I'm scared to be alone, or need to prove a point. I'm happy with me, happy with solitude...damn I need time to myself. I just don't have the time to play games, which a lot of younger men still want. I want to feel...dare I say it...comfortable.
Doesn't mean I don't still enjoy fun and sex. I just don't need the conflict that can sometimes go with it.

Sparkles.

[Andy]

Its a part of a relationship not the most important and not the least. It is just one of the elements that make up a whole complete give and take between a man and a woman.